{"id":13429,"date":"2025-04-14T09:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-04-14T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.11onze.cat\/?p=13429"},"modified":"2025-03-19T17:36:55","modified_gmt":"2025-03-19T16:36:55","slug":"language-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.11onze.cat\/en\/magazine\/language-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"The language of happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Choose your words wisely, because they will be decisive in your mood, in your relationships, and even in your happiness. We all carry fears, insecurities, and negativity within us, and language has the power to transform this in our favour.<\/b><\/h3>\n

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Language is one more community element, and perhaps the most powerful. It is from speeches that we vote for one political party or another, or that a football team enters the field more or less motivated. From birth, we learn through language, whether spoken, written, or through symbols. And it is these words, to which the community gives meaning, that describe the world around us, and ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Building a community through language<\/b><\/h3>\n

\u201cSpeaking is half his who speaks, and half his who hears.\u201d This is how the philosopher Michel de Montaigne described it. The language we share makes us part of a community, either generically or personalized through slang or words that are only used in our area.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The richer the vocabulary, the easier it will be for society to describe the environment and everything that happens in it. In Galician, for example, there are more than 70 words to describe rain. Thanks to this, this community will have more knowledge in this field for the simple fact that their language has the ability to describe it. <\/span>A word at a time, we build the environment and our present<\/b>, but we also build ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n

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The power of positive language<\/b><\/h3>\n

As the Mexican philosopher Octavio Paz said, <\/span>we are made of words<\/b>, and they are our only reality. Therefore, the way we speak will describe this reality, and we can do so in a positive or negative way.<\/span><\/p>\n

Luis Castellanos is one of the world’s leading figures in positive language. The writer and philosopher has found, after years of research, that <\/span>positive language directly influences our happiness<\/b>. The words we choose to describe how we feel, how we see ourselves, or the ones we use to socialize condition our lives.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

He argues that all words, positive or negative, have an emotional charge. To get an idea, he theorizes that if we use a negative word when socializing, we must provide five positive words to counteract them and deserve the relationship again. This is the <\/span>impact of negativity on words<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Building happiness a word at a time<\/b><\/h3>\n

Actions as simple as changing the words we use in our day-to-day life can have a huge impact on our mood and behaviour. Here are some examples:<\/span><\/p>\n